Marriage is important because it unites a man and his wife and starts a family with many blessings such as children and many more.
These days, however, many families break up due to various reasons, especially misunderstandings between the two people.
Of course, there should not be a secret between the couple, but there are things that a woman should not tell her husband, no matter how much they love each other.
Many African societies have a saying that if the ears don’t hear, the heart doesn’t. And if we want there to be peace in the family, there may be many obstacles, and the woman is required to take part in solving these issues.
Here are five things that a woman should not tell her husband:
1. Don’t try and say I hate your mother and your family.
-No matter how bad your mother-in-law is, don’t tell your husband that you hate his mother, or his family. No matter how angry you are, don’t try to say anything bad about it, or think that your husband is with them.
2. Don’t tell your husband that you want the family to break up.
-Threatening divorce means that you are not satisfied with the marriage. Unless there is a big problem, it is better to work together to solve the problems that you have.
3. To comment on other men.
-Don’t say things that will make your husband feel bad or make him a bad person.
4. Don’t talk about how many men you’ve dated.
-If you discuss these issues in details about many men before him, he may take you as a bad person.
5. Don’t talk about the male friends you like or about the in-laws.
-We all know that if you are married they don’t matter.
But, it is dangerous to comment on your male friends to your husband. Because your husband may be suspicious of the behavior of the men you are friends with, which can destroy your marriage.
